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You are here: Home / Articles / Facing divorce? Don’t dread the holidays — prepare instead

Facing divorce? Don’t dread the holidays — prepare instead

December 12, 2017 By Patricia Barrett

If you are considering divorce in 2018, you are probably dreading the approaching holidays. Let’s face it, no one wants to acknowledge marital discord when the theme is “joy” and “good cheer.”

As the New Year approaches, consider focusing now on preparation and planning for what lies ahead. Here are some steps you can take during the holidays that will lay the ground work for a more productive divorce process. If you simply don’t have time or can’t face the prospect of divorce now, do what you can and keep this list handy for action when the holidays are over.

  • Begin gathering and making copies of all your household financial documents for the discovery process.
  • Consider getting a credit report on yourself and your spouse.
  • Be discreet with your plans during this time, even among family members and friends.
  • Take photographs of everything in your house, inside the closets, drawers, the garage and even your safe deposit box; date each image. Take extra care in photographing valuable collections, if accessible. Store the images in a safe location, possibly online in a new, separate account. If items start to disappear as you move through divorce, you have a record of the items.
  • Set a budget for gift-giving; avoid creating new debt or spending down savings.
  • Ease your stress by engaging a Certified Divorce Financial analyst to help you prepare for the often complicated financial side of divorce. She is specifically trained to help you compile the right documents you need that outline assets and debts. This will also help you get answers to financial and tax questions, to begin considering equitable settlement arrangements and developing a realistic post-divorce budget.
  • Practice self-care. Schedule a massage or a pedicure/manicure. Take walks outside or try yoga. Meditate. Watch your diet and alcohol consumption. Staying healthy will help you make better decisions in the weeks and months ahead.
  • Every day, write down one thing for which you are grateful and why. If you keep the list on your smart phone or computer, it’s easy to update each day. This will help you maintain perspective and a more positive attitude during this time.

If you must, put the divorce on the back burner during the holidays. But remember it is still simmering there and will soon will require your full attention. Keep up necessary appearances, but take care of yourself and start preparing for what lies ahead. You want to be ready to proceed on your path to becoming a healthy, well-adjusted single in the New Year.

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